Tokyo, Japan 2026年11月1日（日曜日）
東京、日本
January 2, 2026 — right after our civil ceremony in Las Vegas. 2026年1月2日 — Las Vegasでの入籍後に撮影しました。
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8-chōme-11-27 Akasaka
Minato City, Tokyo 107-0052
東京都港区赤坂8丁目11-27
🚇 Nogizaka Station (Chiyoda Line, Exit 1) — 1 min walk
🚇 Roppongi Station (Hibiya Line) — 7 min walk
🚇 乃木坂駅（千代田線、1番出口）— 徒歩1分
🚇 六本木駅（日比谷線）— 徒歩7分
Concord Ballroom, 5F Main Tower
2-chōme-2-1 Nishishinjuku
Shinjuku City, Tokyo 160-8330
コンコードボールルーム、本館5階
東京都新宿区西新宿2丁目2-1
🚇 Shinjuku Station (West Exit) — 5 min walk
🚇 Tochōmae Station (Oedo Line, Exit B1) — 1 min walk
🚇 新宿駅（西口）— 徒歩5分
🚇 都庁前駅（大江戸線、B1出口）— 徒歩1分
📍 Venue TBD会場未定
A casual evening to unwind, grab a drink, and meet fellow guests — a laid-back welcome to the weekend before the celebration begins.
結婚式前に皆様と一緒にゆっくりとお酒を飲み交わしましょう。アメリカではウェルカムドリンクは一般的で、参加可能な方は是非いらっしゃってください。
Exact time and location TBD — details will be shared closer to the date.詳細は現在調整中です。近日中にご案内いたします。
⛩️ Nogi Kaikan乃木会館
Please arrive at the entrance of Nogi Kaikan no later than 1:05 PM. Guides will need 15 minutes to escort and seat all guests before the ceremony begins promptly at 1:20 PM.
Guests who arrive after 1:05 PM will not be permitted to enter the hall and must observe from outside, which is standing only and from a distance.
Punctuality is deeply valued in Japanese culture — please plan your journey accordingly.
1時05分までに乃木会館の入口にお越しください。スタッフが式場（拝殿）までエスコートし、お席へご案内いたします。1時05分以降にお越しの方は、式場の外からの立ち見でのご参列となりますのでご注意ください。
Street view of the Nogi Kaikan entrance乃木会館入口のストリートビュー
⛩️ Nogi Shrine乃木神社
See our Cultural Guide for details on what to expect.
🚌 In Transit移動中
Complimentary shuttles from Nogi Kaikan to Keio Plaza Hotel Tokyo. Use the time to freshen up or take a stroll — feel free to make your own way if you prefer. 乃木会館から京王プラザホテルへの無料シャトルバスをご用意しています。身支度を整えたり、散策をお楽しみください。ご自身でお越しいただいても構いません。
📍 Keio Plaza Hotel Tokyo京王プラザホテル
Make your way to the Concord Ballroom, 5F Main Tower. Light bites and an open bar to kick off the evening. 本館5階のコンコードボールルームへお越しください。軽食とドリンクをご用意してお待ちしております。
A full evening of programming — buffet-style dinner with assigned seating, dancing, speeches, and a blend of Western, Japanese, and Filipino traditions — with a few surprises along the way. ビュッフェ形式のディナー（着席指定あり）、ダンス、スピーチ、そして西洋・日本・フィリピンの伝統を取り入れた盛りだくさんの夕べをご用意しています。どうぞお楽しみに。
After the reception, our friends will have something planned — the nijikai (二次会), a casual Japanese after-party. Stick around and follow the group if you're up for it. 披露宴の後は、友人たちが企画してくれています。気が向いたらグループについていきましょう。
Cultural Guide
The dress code is cocktail attire — dressed up, but not black tie. We'd love to see barongs and filipinianas representing the Filipino side of our celebration.
Here's what to keep in mind:
🤍 Avoid all-white — including off-white, champagne, and ivory — reserved for the bride. Exception: traditional Filipino formal attire, where these colors are customary.
👔 Gentlemen, please avoid black neckties — black is associated with mourning and funerals.
🐍 Animal and reptile prints are best left at home — considered inauspicious.
👞 Comfortable footwear is encouraged — the shrine grounds have gravel paths, and there will be dancing at the reception.
Our ceremony follows the traditional Shinto format, known as Shinzenshiki — a sacred, reverent rite held before the gods. The ceremony is led by a Shinto priest (神主), who acts as the intermediary between the couple and the gods, guiding each ritual with quiet authority. Expect a quiet, unhurried pace lasting around 30 minutes. The ceremony will be conducted entirely in Japanese. Key moments include:
🌿 Shubatsu — a purification rite to cleanse all in attendance
🍶 San-san-kudo — the couple share sake from three cups of increasing size, sipping three times each, symbolizing the union of heaven, earth, and humanity
📜 Wedding vows — read aloud before the altar
🌸 Tamagushi — the offering of a sacred Sakaki branch
💍 Exchange of rings
A few housekeeping notes
🔇 Please silence your phone before entering the shrine.
📷 Photography and video are restricted during the ceremony — we have a dedicated photographer and videographer capturing every moment so you don't have to. We ask that you put your phones away and fully immerse yourself in the experience.
🙏 Maintain a calm and respectful atmosphere throughout — the shrine is a sacred space.
The reception is where things open up — warm, lively, and full of meaningful moments. Expect a blend of Western, Japanese, and Filipino traditions woven throughout the evening.
🥂 Kanpai — the evening kicks off with a toast; everyone raises their glass together before the first sip
🍽️ Dinner — buffet style with assigned seating and an open bar throughout the night
💃 Dancing — the dance floor will be open throughout the evening
🎉 Speeches and more — more to be revealed on the day
Entirely optional — many of our Japanese guests will be participating, and we share this simply as context for those who'd like to join in the tradition.
Wedding gifts are traditionally given as money in a special envelope called a 祝儀袋 (shugi bukuro). Here's how it works:
💴 The amount — give an odd number, as even numbers can be split in two, symbolizing separation. Avoid amounts containing 4 (shi — sounds like death) or 9 (ku — sounds like suffering).
📝 The envelope — crisp new notes only. Goshugi envelopes can be found at convenience stores (7-Eleven, FamilyMart, Lawson) or at Loft and Tokyu Hands for a wider selection.
🎁 When to present it — Goshugi is presented at the reception entrance, not during the ceremony.
Hotels
We recommend staying near Shinjuku Station — it's well connected to both airports and a short walk to the reception venue. Several of these hotels also have direct airport limousine bus stops to both Haneda and Narita airports, making arrival and departure a breeze. Here are some hotels we'd suggest:
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The reception venue itself. Tokyo's first skyscraper hotel, open since 1971 — a landmark in the heart of Nishishinjuku with a full spa, multiple restaurants, and an on-site Japanese tea ceremony experience.
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A well-regarded international luxury hotel with spacious rooms and excellent service. Connected to Tochomae Subway Station by underground walkway, with rooftop tennis courts and an executive lounge with views of Mt Fuji on a clear day.
🚶 ~5 min walk to Keio Plaza
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A stylish, highly-rated hotel near Shinjuku Station's south exit with spacious rooms featuring floor-to-ceiling city views. The on-site restaurant serves a breakfast buffet featuring regional Kyushu cuisine — Saori's home region.
🚶 ~9 min walk to Keio Plaza
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A fun, well-reviewed hotel in Kabukicho with great city views — home to the famous Godzilla head on the rooftop terrace, Godzilla-themed rooms, and sits in the same complex as a 12-screen TOHO cinema.
🚶 ~13 min walk to Keio Plaza
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A comfortable, well-located hotel near Shinjuku Station featuring a Japanese garden, an aromatherapy spa, female-only floors, and rooms with a pillow menu.
🚶 ~10 min walk to Keio Plaza
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A reliable mid-range option in Nishishinjuku, steps from the Tokyo Metropolitan Government Building. Impressive for its price — 15 on-site restaurants including Manhattan Table, which offers panoramic Shinjuku skyline views.
🚶 ~8 min walk to Keio Plaza
Tokyo Guide
Our personal picks for the best of Tokyo — from wellness and attractions to food, coffee, shopping, and neighborhoods.
ABBEY holds a very special place in our hearts — it's where Saori built her career in Tokyo, guided by the incredible team there. A legendary salon known for its impeccable cuts and iconic Tokyo style, with two locations in Minami-aoyama and multiple salons across the city. Our highest recommendation for a world-class hair experience in Tokyo.
Wed–Fri 11:00–20:00 · Sat–Sun 10:00–18:00
A luxury wet head spa in Ebisu — one of Tokyo's most indulgent and uniquely Japanese wellness experiences. Completely private rooms, English-friendly, and designed for deep relaxation. Treatments include a foot bath, scalp cleanse, clay mask, and the signature Yume Headbath. Perfect for couples or solo — up to two guests can be treated simultaneously.
9:45–20:30 · 3 min walk from Ebisu Station East Exit
A fully immersive digital art museum at Azabudai Hills where artworks flow between rooms with no boundaries. Every visit feels different — light, sound, and movement surround you completely. One of the most unique cultural experiences in the world. Book tickets in advance.
Daily 8:30–21:00
A more intimate, intensely physical teamLab experience in Toyosu — you walk through water, lie beneath floating flowers, and move through rooms that respond to your presence. Fewer exhibits than Borderless but arguably more visceral. Wear shorts and be prepared to get wet. Book in advance.
Daily 8:00–22:00
Japan's largest exhibition space, housed in a breathtaking wave-like glass building in Roppongi. With no permanent collection, it hosts a rotating programme of world-class exhibitions. The architecture alone is worth the visit — and the French restaurant on the third floor is a treat.
Wed–Mon 10:00–18:00 · Fri–Sat until 20:00 · Closed Tuesday
Tucked inside Tokyo Midtown in Roppongi, the Suntory Museum focuses on the beauty of everyday Japanese life — ceramics, lacquerware, glass, and textiles. Intimate, thoughtfully curated, and a wonderful contrast to the scale of the National Art Center nearby.
One of Tokyo's most sacred and serene spots — a Shinto shrine dedicated to Emperor Meiji, set within a sprawling forested park in the heart of the city. Walking the tree-lined path to the shrine is a meditative experience unlike anything else in Tokyo. Free to enter.
A rooftop park built above a stylish shopping complex in the heart of Shibuya. Part urban green space, part cultural hub — with skate ramps, bouldering walls, beach volleyball, restaurants, and great city views. A perfect stop for a drink and people-watching after exploring Shibuya.
Daily 11:00–21:00
The world's most famous fish market — and even after the inner market moved to Toyosu, the outer market remains a vibrant maze of fresh seafood, street food, tamagoyaki, and kitchen supplies. Go early for the best picks. A quintessential Tokyo morning experience.
Most stalls open from 5:00 AM · Best visited before 10:00 AM
A must-visit. This intimate counter restaurant serves a focused set menu of wagyu beef hamburger steaks, grilled right in front of you one by one. Simple, precise, and unforgettable. Reservations are highly recommended — book in advance!
Mon–Tue, Thu–Sun 11:00–15:00 & 17:00–21:00 · Closed Wednesday
A tiny, beloved spot in Shibuya serving what many consider the best katsudon in Tokyo. Just 8 seats, a perfectly crispy pork cutlet, and a beautifully balanced sweet-salty sauce over rice. Simple, honest, and unforgettable. Arrive early — the line forms before they open.
Mon–Fri 11:30–18:00 · Sat 11:30–20:00 · Closed Sunday
A beloved Neapolitan-style pizzeria in Akasaka with a 4.8 rating and a fiercely loyal following. The dough is exceptional — fluffy, charred, and light — topped with quality Italian ingredients. The vibe is relaxed and the staff are warm. Reservations are a must.
Mon & Wed–Thu 17:00–21:30 · Fri–Sun 11:30–14:30 & 17:00–21:30 · Closed Tuesday
A legendary izakaya tucked in Daikanyama with retro rock vibes, floor seating, and some of the most authentic grilled skewers in Tokyo. Everything is cooked fresh in front of you. It has the feel of a locals-only secret — intimate, characterful, and completely unforgettable. Reservations strongly recommended.
Mon–Sat 18:00–00:00 · Closed Sunday
Tokyo's most beloved fluffy soufflé pancake spot. These thick, cloud-like pancakes are made to order and worth every minute of the wait. The Omotesando location is the flagship — cozy, beautifully designed, and tucked below street level. Multiple locations across the city if you can't make it here. Reservations are available and recommended.
Mon–Fri 10:00–19:00 · Sat–Sun 9:00–19:30
A Tokyo institution originally from Oslo — Fuglen brings Scandinavian coffee culture to the quiet backstreets of Tomigaya. By day it's a beautifully calm café with exceptional espresso and vintage décor; by night it transforms into a full bar serving craft cocktails until late. One of our absolute favorites in the city.
Mon–Tue 7:00–23:00 · Wed–Sun 7:00–01:00
One of the most extraordinary coffee experiences in the world — a four-seat coffee omakase near Omotesando that blends the philosophy of Japanese tea ceremony with rare, single-origin coffees. Created by World Barista Champion Hidenori Izaki, each session is a full course of coffee unlike anything you've had before. Reservation only — the address is shared after booking.
A Tokyo institution — a sprawling, slightly chaotic discount store open 24 hours with everything from snacks and souvenirs to electronics and cosmetics. A must-visit for anyone wanting to experience a quintessentially Tokyo shopping experience. Multiple locations across the city — you won't have to look far. Bring your passport for tax-free shopping!
Open 24 hours · Multiple locations citywide
Japan's most beloved everyday clothing brand — and shopping it here is a different experience entirely. Flagship stores across Tokyo carry the full range including exclusive Japan-only collections. Perfect for picking up quality essentials or HeatTech layers for cool November evenings.
Multiple locations citywide · Most open daily 10:00–21:00
A legendary Japanese denim and workwear destination in Ueno's Ameyoko market. If you're into raw selvedge denim, this is a must — carrying top Japanese brands like Momotaro, Iron Heart, and Studio D'Artisan at prices far better than overseas. Knowledgeable staff who genuinely love what they sell. Alterations available on the spot.
Daily 10:30–20:00
Japan's answer to IKEA — but better quality and more thoughtfully designed. Great for affordable homeware, kitchenware, textiles, and those small Japanese design touches you'll want to bring home. Multiple locations across Tokyo including a large store in Shinjuku.
Multiple locations citywide · Most open daily 10:00–21:00
A wonderfully quirky Japanese lifestyle store spanning multiple floors of craft supplies, stationery, beauty, travel goods, and home accessories. The kind of place you walk into for one thing and leave an hour later with a bag full of things you didn't know you needed. Multiple locations citywide.
Multiple locations citywide · Most open daily 10:00–21:00
Japan's beloved stationery and lifestyle store — a paradise for anyone who loves beautiful notebooks, pens, organizers, skincare, seasonal goods, and clever everyday objects. Loft is quintessentially Japanese in its attention to detail and design. You'll find something for everyone here.
Multiple locations citywide · Most open daily 10:00–21:00
Centered around a beautiful canal lined with cherry blossom trees, Nakameguro is a neighborhood of understated style — independent coffee shops, fashion-forward boutiques, and some of Tokyo's best people-watching. Especially lovely in autumn.
Tokyo's most effortlessly cool neighborhood — think tree-lined streets, independent boutiques, design-forward cafés, and a relaxed, European feel. A great spot for a leisurely morning or afternoon before the wedding weekend kicks off.
One of Tokyo's most beloved neighborhoods — a maze of narrow streets filled with vintage shops, indie cafés, live music venues, and a laid-back creative energy unlike anywhere else in the city. Perfect for a slow afternoon of wandering.
Tokyo's famous kitchen town — an 800-metre street lined with shops selling everything from Japanese knives and ceramics to traditional cookware and the iconic plastic food displays you see in restaurant windows. A fascinating browse even if you don't buy a thing.
Sophisticated and stylishly understated, Aoyama sits between the energy of Shibuya and the quiet of the city's green spaces. Home to top-tier galleries, architecture, independent boutiques, and some of Tokyo's best dining. A neighborhood we keep coming back to.
A quiet, residential pocket tucked between Shibuya and Yoyogi Park — known for its carefully curated coffee shops, natural wine bars, and low-key creative scene. One of Tokyo's best kept secrets and a favorite of locals in the know.
Q&A
With so many people we love joining us from around the world, we've made the thoughtful decision to keep plus ones to established partners — people who have been a meaningful part of your life for some time and who we've had the chance to get to know. We want every seat at the table to be someone we know and cherish.
As for children, the celebration is primarily adults only. That said, exceptions are made warmly for immediate family or on a case by case basis — don't hesitate to reach out if you have questions.
If your invitation includes a plus one or children, their details may already be pre-filled in your RSVP — simply confirm or add any missing names.
Late October and early November in Tokyo is mild and comfortable — one of the best times to visit. Expect daytime highs around 17–18°C (64°F) and cooler evenings dropping to around 10°C (50°F). Rainfall is low, and the autumn foliage is at its most spectacular — the city's ginkgo and maple trees will be turning gold and red right around our wedding day. We recommend bringing a light coat or jacket, especially for the evening reception and any late-night festivities.
Saturday is reserved for the Ryōke Aisatsu (両家挨拶) — a cherished Japanese tradition where both families meet formally for the first time. It's an intimate gathering for immediate family only, giving both sides a chance to connect before the big day.
And for everyone else — it's Halloween night in Tokyo! Feel free to explore the city and take it all in. One note: Shibuya is the famous epicenter of Tokyo's Halloween celebrations, but it gets extremely crowded and street drinking is banned. Plan accordingly if you head that way!
Nogi Kaikan is easily accessible by both train and taxi.
🚇 By train — take the Tokyo Metro Chiyoda Line to Nogizaka Station. Nogi Kaikan is a 1-minute walk from Exit 1.
🚕 By taxi — we recommend the GO app, Japan's most widely used taxi app with full English support and easy registration for international phone numbers:
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Nogi Kaikan (乃木会館) is a wedding hall located adjacent to Nogi Shrine (乃木神社) — this is where guests will gather and be escorted from. The ceremony itself takes place inside Nogi Shrine, the sacred Shinto shrine right next door. Think of Nogi Kaikan as the meeting point, and Nogi Shrine as where the ceremony happens.
Our ceremony time was chosen with great intention — 1:20 PM was selected per the recommendation of our wedding planner as an auspicious time for the date of our ceremony.
The ceremony takes place within the haiden (拝殿) — the sacred covered hall of Nogi Shrine — open to the surrounding grounds but fully sheltered from sun and rain.
The ceremony will be conducted entirely in Japanese, but don't worry — the rituals are deeply visual and filled with meaning that transcends language. From the purification rite to the sharing of sake and the exchange of rings, each moment speaks for itself. And yes, Jason will be reading his vows in Japanese too — wish him luck! Simply take it in and let the atmosphere guide you.
For the reception, English-speaking staff will be available throughout, and the program will include a bilingual translator to ensure everyone feels included and can follow along.
There will be no food or drinks at Nogi Kaikan or the shrine grounds. We recommend having a proper breakfast or lunch before arriving. For the reception, cocktail hour will have light bites and an open bar, and a full buffet dinner will be served as part of the evening's program.
Complimentary shuttles will be provided from Nogi Kaikan to Keio Plaza Hotel during the transit intermission. This is completely optional — feel free to make your own way if you prefer.
Your presence in Tokyo means everything to us. We've chosen not to set up a traditional registry. If you'd like to participate in the Goshugi (ご祝儀) tradition, our Cultural Guide has everything you need to know.
Joining from abroad? Venmo is also an option →
We met over the July 4th weekend in 2024 and became official a few days later on July 7th — so the password wrote itself.
On July 7, 2025 — 7/7 in the 7th year of Japan's Reiwa era, or 7/7/7 — we had our rings made. And in true Vegas fashion, Jason considers meeting Saori his 777 moment. 🎰
July 7th also happens to be the birthday of Jay — Jason's principal sponsor and honorary best man. The date keeps giving.
Q&A
乃木会館は乃木神社に隣接する結婚式場で、ゲストの集合場所となります。挙式はすぐ隣にある乃木神社（神聖な神道の神社）の拝殿にて行われます。乃木会館が集合場所、乃木神社が挙式の場所とお考えください。
披露宴は、西洋・日本・フィリピンの文化を融合させた温かくにぎやかな雰囲気になる予定です。Jasonはフィリピン系アメリカ人、Saoriは日本人で、今回の披露宴はその多文化な背景を反映した内容になっています。
スピーチやプログラムは英語と日本語で進行し、バイリンガルの通訳が入りますので、すべての方が楽しんでいただけるようご用意しています。
欧米式の披露宴では、食事やスピーチの後にDJによるダンスタイムを設けることが一般的です。フォーマルなダンスではなく、音楽に合わせて皆で自由に楽しむスタイルです。参加は自由ですので、見ているだけでも大歓迎です！
バロン（Barong Tagalog）はフィリピンの伝統的な男性用礼装で、薄い素材に刺繍が施された美しいシャツです。フィリピニャーナ（Filipiniana）は女性用の伝統礼装で、バタフライスリーブが特徴的なエレガントなドレスです。どちらも白やアイボリーなどの明るい色が一般的です。
Jasonはフィリピン系であるため、彼のゲストの中にはこれらの伝統衣装をお召しの方がいらっしゃいます。日本の結婚式では通常避けられる色ですが、今回はフィリピン文化への敬意として特別にご了承いただいております。どうぞ温かく見守っていただければ幸いです。